What I learned was that I forgot about lightroom so I had to relearn it, and i didn't like it.  i had to go though all of the steps and it really made me mad.  I went though most of my pictures and found that not a lot of them where good, and so i only had like four or five good ones.  what i tried to do is find the best ones, like the funny ones.

what I did was find that when i started changing the color and highlights, i didn't like it, but the more and more i did it, at the very end i thought that i was not ugly, but kids cool.  and no matter why i changed it in the end it still looked cool in the end. and that was weird.